Port Pirie born Judy Nelson, 57, is a woman of substance, courage, resilience, determination and guts.
She had always been adventurous and a bit of a tomboy so it was no surprise when in 1982 she joined the Australian Army Reserves.
While in the reserves she trained as a clerical officer and cook, the position she still holds today with the 10/27 Battalion.
During her training she had the distinction of being the top female in her recruit course.
Joining the reserves shaped her destiny when in 1983 she met Sergeant Brian Nelson.
In March that year, as she looked out over the balcony at the Hampstead Barracks he proposed to her from the steps below which was the start of a whirlwind romance.
“No one thought it would last and we are still together,” Mrs Nelson said.
In 1988, Mr Nelson left the Army Reserves and was instrumental in starting the Port Pirie 414 Army Cadet Unit in 1990.
In 1996, Mrs Nelson was the top female for her battalion.
The next year she was gravely ill with salmonella but in early 1998 she pushed herself to get through the Corporal Course.
She proudly announced that she was the oldest person to do that course.
For nearly 28 years she has worked under the most extreme conditions.
Up to ten times a year she spends a weekend with the reserves at Berri, Murray Bridge, Cultana or Whyalla.
With great humour Mrs Nelson said that Murray Bridge is known as Murryfridge because it is always cold there, Whyalla because of the wind is known as Windyalla and Cultana because of the exhausting heat is know as Cooktana.
She has had the privilege of meeting Dame Roma Mitchell and while on an exercise at Woomera Range camping in the bush, she met the Governor at the time, Marjorie Jackson Nelson at a meet and greet parade.
“We have the same name, we might be related,” Governor Jackson Nelson said after being introduced to Mrs Nelson.
“Maybe our ancestors came out on the same convict ship,” the thrilled corporal replied.
After seeing the conditions that the battalion were enduring, the Governor said, “I will tell my staff never to complain about their conditions again.”
Some of those extreme conditions for Corporal Nelson include cooking in 120 degrees farenheit in the shade.
She cooked from a fold-up trailer kitchen, which combined a deep fryer, hot plate and double steamer.
“We often live in tents and on some exercises the kitchen runs 24 hours a day,” Mrs Nelson said.
“I have cooked up to 1000 per meal, three meals a day for 14 days straight.”
A memorable time was when Australia, England, New Zealand and America joined forces for the Kangaroo Exercise, held at Derby at the top end of Australia, when 20,000 people had to be catered for.
“Much more happens behind the lines than people are aware of.”
“No army can go forward without their support battalion.”
“There has to be cooks and drivers to transport equipment.”
Mrs Nelson has received the Australian Soldiers’ Medal and Australian Defence Force medals for 15-years service and long service along with a 20 and 25-year clasps to the medal.
A highlight for Mrs Nelson was being part of Operation Gold at the 2000 Sydney Olympic Games.
“It was fantastic, I was working in security helping the NSW police,” she said.
For this assignment she received the Operation Gold Medallion.
During her civilian life Mrs Nelson has studied at TAFE and worked as a bar person besides being employed as an armed guard/security officer.
This woman, who puts everything into what she does, would not stand much more than five feet but can take it up to the men.
“I think woman are more determined,” she said.
“You have to put yourself out there.”
In 1997, this courageous woman was the only female from her company to absail down the Port Pirie silos.
“It was pretty scary, I screamed all the way down and did a bit of swearing too,” she said.
Then while absailing at Rawnsley Park she did a loop the loop in the process, which she said, was not the original plan.
There was a time in her life when she almost left the Reserves but was encouraged to stay by Major Adrian Flynn and other Port Pirie Reserve members.
It was after the sudden tragic death of her son, 30-year-old Travis Smith.
“He was an organ donor, and that some how made a positive out of a negative,” said Mrs Nelson.
To relax the Nelsons spend time at the family retreat, a delightful little week-ender at Stone Hut, which they have owned for 15 years.
Their other joy and delight is baby-sitting their grandchildren.
This amazing woman doesn’t let
anything beat her and said her years in the Army Reserves has built her
confidence and given her self-
discipline.
“It is wonderful and women should never be afraid to give it a go,” she said.
“It is very challenging, you hit the ground running or have to wait around for hours.”
“I would advise anyone who is not sure what to do with their lives to join the defence forces.”
“No one will ask more than what
you can give and you don’t expect
more from others than what they can give.”
Mrs Nelson is the longest serving and only female left in Port Pirie and one
of the longest serving in the her
battalion.
“It is a very small group in Pirie and we are looking for more members,” she said.
“The only criteria are physical and medical requirements.”
“It is a wonderful opportunity to learn skills and if I can do it anyone can.”
“But be prepared to make a lot of sacrifices.”
Asked what keeps the passion she said, “the challenge and the friendships.”
“To be honest, it is also the money.”
“Also, you never let your mates down, so I will be there for them for a while yet.”